To Be Successful in Life, Stop Learning From Mistakes

All of us want to be successful, but HOW is the question.

If we want to be successful then we should ignore this saying that states "LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES". The truth is if you keep learning from your mistakes, YOU WILL REMAIN A FAILURE. When you are trying to learn from mistakes, what are you focused on? It's quite obvious - FAILURES. How can we derive Success, when you are always thinking of failures and attracting thoughts related to failures?

I wonder when people say learn from your failures, how can you look at BAT and keep thinking of CAT, is that possible? NO! But we hear everyone saying to learn from failures, while doing so most of the time your mind keeps criticizing you for the mistakes you have done making your mind sick and body weak. Frankly speaking if you have to move forward then stop that thought. Tell me honestly when you think of failures do you feel charged or depressed? 100% depressed then in that case how can you move ahead positively when your mind is working in opposite direction. Mind is not like a train where you can place the engine on the back facing reverse and push the compartments forward. How can you move forward with your eyes on the back focussing on reverse direction, Impossible isn't it? You are looking at failures and asked to think of success.

The conclusion is that, if you want to move ahead just look at failures and tell yourself sarcastically "Man, how can I do such a foolish thing?" Leave it there, that's it. Your past failures are not the right kind of companions to carry with you. They will only drown and pull you down. The thoughts that we carry should be the ones that will wake up and make us act. Imagine you are running a 100 meters race and before starting the race, at the last moment if you visualize about you past race in which you failed then what could be your present performance instead if you visualize about a race that you won in your past and then start running in this, automatically your mind and body gets charged, Right?

So everybody who is reading this article and convincing yourself to learn from failures, I wish you "HAPPY FAILURE" and sad learning or stand tall to accept and say NO to failures even in thoughts, move ahead and stop thinking of what you lost, just think of what you want.

Santhosh K Nair

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