How to Be More Positive

We all need to learn how to be more positive. Negative thoughts weight you down and make it difficult to get things done. Above all, we need to shut down the negative thoughts and words about our self. What you think and say is actually a self fulfilling prophecy about the future. Quit thinking that "I can't do it." Think, "I can do it." Quit thinking like a victim.Think like e a victor.

Learn to be grateful for what you have. Be grateful for your house, your family, your job and everything you can think about. Learn to visualize a bright future. Negative thoughts are often unrealistic. They hinder going forward toward your goal. Positive thoughts ignite your passion and give you the energy to overcome obstacles. Negative thinking makes' problems seem bigger than they are.

Fill your mind with positive inspirational quotes, like "Make your mistakes the stepping stones to your success. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. I know I can do it. God has given me all that I need to be successful." If you are a Christian you can say, "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me." You can also keep saying that "I am getting better and better every day."

One of the best ways to stay positive is to have a balanced life. Work hard while you work, then go home and forget about work so that your mind can be on your family and the things that you enjoy doing. Being with your spouse and kids should be a lift up, not a letdown. Keep things positive and avoid arguments. Being at peace with loved ones is more important than having your own way.

Another way to be positive is to reprogram the negative thoughts you have had since your childhood. Children have different rules than adults. They are told to stay away from electoral outlets, stove burners, busy streets, and not to talk to strangers. Adults, have the judgment to handle such things. We often have mistaken ideas when children that can hinder us as adults. This often conflicts with adult life.

Positive thinking can be enhanced with visualization and goals. Visualize what you want to achieve. See yourself as successful and having all you want and need. Imagine the beautiful house you will live in and the sexy car you will ride around in. Imagine how you are going to mow down your obstacles and realize your fondest dream. Feel how close you will become to your spouse.

Negative attitudes do not solve problems. In Numbers chapter 13 when the spies went to see if they could take the land of Canaan, all but two said that they could not take the land. They all died in the wilderness. Joshua and Caleb said they could take the land with God's help. They lived to go into the land and take it. The best way to have a positive attitude is to have a faith in God. He does not make mistakes and nothing is impossible for him.

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