It is the nature of a human being to compare himself or herself to another, so we all make comparisons. The question is, what kind of comparisons are you making?
All too often, we compare ourselves to others who have what we want, which causes us to feel a sense of emptiness or limitation. But what if we could look at other people who have what we want and feel appreciation instead. What if we could feel inspired by those who are succeeding in the areas that we are not.
Although we are all connected at an energetic level, we are all living separate lives and experiencing different journeys. So, when you find yourself comparing yourself to another, the first thing to remember is that there is no set path for everyone and there is more than one way to do something.
We all have different things to learn and different obstacles to overcome in order to grow, develop and expand. Society conditions us to certain limitations and trains us to compete against one another. But it's time to step outside of the bubble of limitations that society trains us into.
It doesn't matter what you currently have or do not have and it doesn't matter how successful you currently are. The only thing that matters is that you're moving toward what you want. When you're moving toward what you want, you're growing.
In order to move toward what we want, we must give up the act of comparing ourselves to others. We cannot move toward what we want if we are constantly making negative comparisons that make us feel like we're not good enough.
When we consciously make the decision to give up the act of comparing ourselves to others, we will be able to focus on the positive aspects of ourselves and our lives. When train our mind to focus on the positive aspects of ourselves and our lives, then self-praise will replace self-criticism.
It is only when self-praise replaces self-criticism that we will feel better about ourselves. When we stop judging ourselves, we will also stop judging other people and so not only will we feel better about ourselves, but we will also feel better about other people.
Tell yourself about all of your positive aspects. Tell yourself that you are good enough. Remind yourself that you are worthy of all your desires. Know that you are just as good as anyone else and that you have the power within.
Let go of the idea that you must compete with others and embrace the idea that you are worthy of everything you want, as is everyone else.
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